I recently spoke with a few friends and they suggested that I make a list of things that I'd look for in a woman I'd want to date. I was encouraged to not list things I didn't want because then if I did that that might end up being the things I'd find in a woman. So I've been thinking of this list, if you will, and putting some good thought into it. I will of course probably add more things, but I was also informed that I might not get the 3 bedroom/ 2 bathroom house, that I might instead get the 3 bedroom/1.5 bathroom house instead. That much I understood. Life and relationships in particular do consist of some compromises, but it's important that I not confuse that with sacrificing certain things that I need or want in my life.
So first and foremost I'd like a woman that I can talk to and feel comfortable being myself around. I need to feel that I can trust her.
I'd likes someone who has goals and ambitions in life.
Wants to learn more about life around her and expand her horizons persay.
She would be either a light drinker or non drinker.
I'd prefer a non-smoker. (I smoked for 17 years and have quit for 5 now)
A hiker girl would be great, or at least go out on a few hikes with me.
Likes to read.
Likes to go for walks and talk.
Family oriented
Feels comfortable being herself.
Low maintenance (can get ready to head out in a reasonable amount of time.
Expects to be treated with respect.
So that's what I've got for now. I think this is a good starting point. I'm not going to get too caught up in this list, but knowing what I'd like is very important and a good thing to know.
1 comment:
Great list, Bryan! Hold firm to your values. She's out there, waiting and hoping and dreaming of you as you are for her.
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